Tim O'Connor understands 'You spot it, you got it.' What I complain about in others is in me.  (Originally posted April 30, 2013) Here’s a neat trick you can try next time you find yourself complaining about someone: After you’ve started spewing forth your judgments and opining about your target’s shortcomings, extend one arm and make a pretend gun as if you were five years old. (Guys will know instinctively what to do. Your … [Read more...]