Real leaders get. It’s not about power. It’s about service

If you need more reasons to say thanks to the person who serves you your morning coffee, here’s a couple: By doing so, you will be committing an act of service. and honing your leadership skills. Among the silver linings of the pandemic lockdown is that we’ve been pushed out of our rote ways of living. We’ve all had to adapt. You could resist. Some are. I believe that a contributing factor to this whole mess is that we have demanded the world … [Read more...]

Good Men Project — What to do before you complain

  Tim O'Connor understands 'You spot it, you got it.' What I complain about in others is in me.  (Originally posted April 30, 2013) Here’s a neat trick you can try next time you find yourself complaining about someone: After you’ve started spewing forth your judgments and opining about your target’s shortcomings, extend one arm and make a pretend gun as if you were five years old. (Guys will know instinctively what to do. Your … [Read more...]